Pray to Become Like Mary
If May is a month of devotion to Mary, maybe we can pray to become like her in our hearts, awakening to her teachings so we can learn to appreciate everything through the lens of her love, wisdom and truth. Our words, emotions, actions, beliefs and feelings may return by conscious choice and divine decision to union with Source. To awaken each day with grace and a sense of peace, preparation, protection, love, and faith in our hearts is to live in the world in a brave and glorious new way. This compassionate and expansive mother energy is available each day and is offered to each of us so we can create a cohesive new earth, with all of God’s creation interconnected.
If we allow this vision to grow within our consciousness, both individually and collectively, perhaps we can release our patterns of divisiveness and instead embrace the essence of our infinite sacred Mother in our hearts and trust this to lead us home, to unity, wholeness and unconditional love once again. May this be our prayer to our Mother Mary during this month of May.
Andrea Hayes, The Sacred Heart Messenger, May 2024
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Forgiveness Leads to Healing
A person’s Christianity can be measured by the degree to which they are prepared to forgive. Forgiveness is one of the deepest expressions of charity. Forgiveness leads to healing. We carry around with us a lot of baggage. We carry the baggage in an invisible sack, and it can weigh us down and tire us. There is no inner peace. We carry wounds, scars, bruises, and hurts from the past, resentment, anger and bitterness. The key to healing of this kind is forgiveness. Forgive, and the baggage melts away. Let go of the chains that bind us. The chains around us have no lock, just our own grip. Let go, forgive, and they will fall away.
An unforgiving attitude, bitterness and a desire for vengeance poison the soul and increase anxiety and feelings of depression, whereas forgiveness heals and frees. It is healthy and wholesome, and it brings peace.
Who is the person whose hand you will not shake?
If you have hatred in your heart for anyone, try to root it out. Easier said than done. The important thing is to try. To try and to keep on trying is to be a saint.
Never are we more like God than when we forgive.
Terence Harrington OFM Cap, The Sacred Heart Messenger, April 2024
The Man With the Leaky Bucket
Don’t write someone off because they don’t come up to the mark in your eyes. They have value in the eyes of God, ‘for everything created by God is good, and nothing is to be rejected if it is received with thanksgiving’ (1 Timothy 4:4).
There is a story in Chinese culture about a man with a leaky bucket. It goes like this.
There was a man who carried two buckets, one on either side of him, balanced on a pole over his shoulders. Every day, he went to the well and filled the two buckets with fresh water. On his arrival home, one bucket was full, and the other bucket was half full. The full bucket was smug and proud of itself. The half-full bucket was anxiously apologising because it was leaking. ‘Don’t worry, don’t worry,’ said the man. ‘Have you not noticed the beautiful wild flowers growing on your side of the road as we walk back home? You have been watering them every day as the water leaked from your bucket.’
Anne Marie Sweeney, The Sacred Heart Messenger, February 2024
A New Fire Kindled Within Us
Easter tells us that Christ came to save us from our least selves. That is the gift as well as the challenge of the resurrection. The Gospels tell us that the disciples were scattered and shamed, broken and bewildered as a community. In a way, we are the very same. They were restored to a new life of message and mission.
Resurrection is about the healing and restoration of bruised and broken relationships between God and humanity, between one another and ultimately with the elements of the unique gift of creation that we have damaged and even destroyed.
Easter empowers, inspires and kindles in us a new fire of enthusiasm to become the gospel truth and evidence that we proclaim, witnessing to the continuing presence of the risen Christ among us now and always.
Easter is about the One who died abandoned, ‘so disfigured did he look’ (Isaiah 53:14), like the many rejected and bereft homeless and displaced people we meet today. The Lord now keeps us company on our own crosses, despite the stark silence, where we whisper or cry out in anguish, My God, my God, why have you deserted me?’
Even when God seems silent and distant, Easter tells us that we are not alone, but share together the risen life of the Lord.
John Cullen, The Sacred Heart Messenger, September 2023
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Jesus is Risen
Alleluia! This is a word you’ll be hearing a lot during this Easter season, which we are now entering. ‘Alleluia’ is a Hebrew word meaning praise the Lord. This tells us something about the focus of the season, which is characterised by joy and hope. Jesus has risen, and he invites us into this new life. The Easter event illuminates our lives as individuals and communities, calling us to be light for the world. The Season of Easter runs from the Easter Vigil to the Feast of Pentecost, a long period of fifty days. At this time of year, we are aware of the signs of new life around us. The days are longer and brighter, birds are singing, flowers are blooming. The new life that bursts from the earth reminds us that God is the source of all life and goodness. Easter is a time of new beginnings.
The Easter message is for everyone, whatever our situation. It is never too late to make a fresh start. The good news is that Jesus is with us. He is present when we pray and when we struggle to pray, when we are happy and when we are hurting, in the beauty of our world, which is always being made new, and in the goodness and love we share with others. As we make our way through this new season, we open the door and invite the risen Jesus to enter.
Tríona Doherty and Jane Mellett, The Deep End: A Journey with the Gospels in the Year of Matthew
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Blessed are Those Who Have Not Seen and Yet Believe
Thomas … thanks! For bringing honesty into our faith. He didn’t pretend that he was better than he was. He began by wanting proof and ended by being glad of faith. He is the patron saint of transitions and steps in faith. Faith is a journey. He is the saint of faith in our times. The community was the place he found faith, having lost it when he tried to go it alone. Then he came back to the community of faith and went on a journey of life that took him to martyrdom in India.
He also found Christ in wanting to touch his wounds. We find God when we enter into his wounds in the wounds of our world. In the faith community of the Church, we can keep our faith. Our faith grows here, too. Thomas looked for faith by wanting to touch the wounds of Jesus. When Jesus invited him to do so, he found he didn’t need to. He found faith in being present with the wounded Christ and discovered there his faith in the glory of Christ.
We can do the same. What was said to Thomas is said to us all: ‘You believe because you can see me. Blessed are those who have not seen and yet believe.‘
Donal Neary SJ, Gospel Reflections for Sundays of Year A
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The Reality of the Resurrection
It is not easy to believe in the resurrection. It is no coincidence that, in almost all apparitions, there is unbelief and doubt, also among the people who knew Jesus very well. At the same time, these hesitant witnesses are going to proclaim his resurrection.
Perhaps this is the strongest proof of the reality of the resurrection. The disciples of Jesus were traumatised by the shameful failure that Jesus’ (and their own) life’s work had turned out to be. They had fled in all directions. Shortly after that, the same people are going to proclaim with unimaginable passion that their hero is the Saviour of the people. They no longer conceal his death on the cross. They will now proclaim it almost with pride. Between both moments, they must have experienced something even more shocking and dramatic than the catastrophe of Jesus’ crucifixion: his resurrection.
Nicolaas Sintobin SJ, Did Jesus Really Exist? and 51 Other Questions
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Facing Into The Darkness
We all have experience of darkness in life at times. It is in facing into the dark and empty place that we can see the reality that our problems, though sometimes seemingly great in size or magnitude, are never the entirety of the story. For me, slowing down and regaining the discipline of prayer and reflection, rather than bringing me to a place of terror and ruin, actually leads me to a place of healing. It’s a place of encounter with reality, of encounter with God.
On Holy Saturday each year, silence falls, and the dark and empty tomb screams out to those who would fear the end, ‘Come, see!’ And I see now why they had to go to the tomb. Jesus was teaching them, even in a time of great misery, that we all have to go to the tomb – the dark and empty places – scary and all as that may be. Why does he call us there? Because when we go, when we face into the darkness, we will see that it is not dark at all. A wonderful light is coming. Problems, even death, are not the end. There is always the promise of three days later.
Brendan McManus SJ and Jim Deeds, Emerging from the Mess
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A Huge Leap of Faith
We are so familiar with the story of the Annunciation that it can be easy to take Mary’s faith for granted. It’s easy to forget that Gabriel’s message opened up a vast new horizon for Mary. He didn’t give Mary any human guarantees; he didn’t offer her a familiar or secure way forward. He took her completely out of her comfort zone. Everything about this singular episode demanded a huge leap of faith: it was already hard enough to accept that an angel was speaking to her; it was even more difficult to believe that a virgin could conceive, but who could imagine that any woman could possibly become God’s own mother! Gabriel was painting a picture that bordered on the preposterous. Mary didn’t stop to think about the sheer unlikelihood of what was being announced. If she had, she would most likely have refused to believe. Mary’s focus was on God. She believed enough in God’s power and love to accept the message that Gabriel communicated to her. She plunged wholeheartedly into the limitless ocean of God as she said: ‘Behold the servant of the Lord, let it be done unto me according to your word’ (Luke 1:38).
Thomas Casey SJ, Smile of Joy: Mary of Nazareth
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We Thirst For Inclusion
A famous picture shows the Samaritan woman looking into the well and seeing her own image and the image of Jesus. In the depths of the well of her life is the presence of Jesus.
In the depths of the well, when we are in love, pain, death, decision, joy, we find God. God is near when we are near to ourselves, even in shame and sin. We thirst for meaning in life, for knowing we are totally loved, for community and companionship – and God offers all this.
This is the offering of God – the living water is the Holy Spirit. We thirst for inclusion – the disciples in this story did not want Jesus talking to a woman. So much of the religion of the time separated people. In the depths of the well, we are all equal.
We find the mercy of God in the well. As we go into the depths of prayer and ourselves, we are open to mercy. We may put conditions on God’s mercy – naming our sins, or numbering them. At the bottom of the well is the water of mercy.
Donal Neary SJ, Gospel Reflections for Sundays of Year A
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